March 14, 2012

Bonfire on Carmel Beach and Light Painting

The same gang that went hiking to Sykes Hot Springs had a bonfire on the beach, and Ben was able to join us this time. We had fun roasting s'mores, chitchatting, playing music, and mostly (at least for Anne-Claire and I) light painting!


Anne-Claire's tribute to "The Bachelor" which we faithfully (although tiresomely this season) watch together every week with John and Ben.

Venus and Jupiter (I think) were also brightly visible by the moon.

I tried to draw a tree, and then lean against it.

Multi-stage self portrait.

AC's perfect waves.

Not just waves, but a fish! I think it's neat that she came up with this on her own, but that Nick did something so similar recently.


As the moon set...

Ben, light man, with red heart.

AC and Ben collaborate: waves, kelp, fish.


Dodon's head looks a little different than usual.



Afterward, Ben convinced Lisa and Dodon to come over to our house, and I have rarely seen him so drunk or funny. He bossed people around, teaching drum rhythms and making me put on a dance costume so they could all play for me. And he made me get out my crystal headdress things, which usually frighten him. It was pretty funny.

Weekend with Mira

I went up to Oakland to spend a couple days with Mira. She's pregnant and busy as ever. This is her dancing the week before with Beats Antique:

I was so happy to spend some quality time with her, watching her baby belly dance around, talking about our respective long term relationships, and pulling together all our bits and pieces that we've collected and making them into costumes. I appreciate Mira so much. I value her perspective on relationships because like me, she's been in one for over 10 years and has not married--she has a very realistic understanding of how things work. She reflects what she sees in me and Ben, and reminds me that sometimes you have to pick your battles. I also feel so creatively replenished after hanging out with her. Her humor and perfectionist eye help me feel actualized.

All my sister's friends had kids in their early twenties, but my friends are just beginning to have children in their mid 30s. Mira is my closest friend that has been pregnant, and she is one of my first peers to be pregnant, so it's kind of different and interesting for me to experience part of this portion of Life through her.

She was working on some pieces for a show in Vegas that would address the confidence and bewilderment she feels entering into motherhood. I can't wait to see what she did.
Here are some costumes I have in the works. Thanks to her serger, I was able to come darn close to finishing one costume in a day. That never happens!






Big Sur Hiking Addendum Movie

March 13, 2012

Camping and Hiking to Sykes Hot Springs in Big Sur.

Alright, pictures tell better stories than words, so I'll let them do the talking. But the long and the short of it was that some of my friends and I went backpacking/hiking/camping a few weekends ago. Ben couldn't come because he had some work to do so that his business could close on the following Monday with their investors (!!). So, that was exciting for us, but we were all bummed he couldn't join us to Big Sur. Anyway, we left early in the morning, and drove down to Big Sur, and were hoping that the rainy weekend forecast would keep the other campers away for the weekend. I have been camping many times, and hiking many times, but I had only done both in one trip (ie, hiking in with my gear) once before, when I was 16 in Scotland! So I was a little teensy bit nervous too. As Ben said, "you've never been so old and decrepit doing this before," (ha ha).

Laura, Dodon, Lisa, Anne-Claire, John, Me.

The rain made for valleys full of rainbows! So lovely!

Dodon, Me, Lisa, Laura.

Another rainbow.

Lupins collect the ambient moisture.

Redwood bark up close.

It dries up a bit, and we shed our rain jackets.

If you use your imagination, you can see the ocean over those far hills to the left.

Smiley face in the moss.

Close-up of the moss. I'm sure it's almost never as wet as it was for us in those hills. With the moss, and the trillium and other wildflowers, I was even reminded of Kentucky in April!

Anne-Claire and a rainbow.

Five or six miles in, we drop our bags and set up camp, and eat lunch.

Trusty little tent that I lived in in Africa!

After lunch, we walked 4 or 5 more miles in to Sykes hot springs, sans big packs.

I am reminded how awe-inspiring California has been throughout the ages.

And how the heck did people find this hot spring?? Because it is seriously out in the middle of nowhere.

I squealed with delight when I saw this little guy! I thought it was an endangered species...

...but it turned out just to be a California newt, which is fairly common. Still, I was pleased I saw it at all! Neat little guy.

Clearing up.

We made it to the hot springs!

There were 3 tubs. Two were full of rowdy beer-drinkers, so we snuggled up in this one (and thereby squeezed out a lone hiker who had the whole tub to himself before us. Doh). It was neat. Not super hot, or comfortable. Definitely not worth the hike all by itself. The landscape was more worthy of the excursion without the hype of the hot springs. Still, kind of neat to have done.

When we finished up in the hot tub, it was already almost dark. We hiked back to our tents 5 miles in the dark. I didn't really use my headlamp b/c it was super dim, and I wanted to make sure it would last in camp. I definitely stepped in ice-cold water crossing one of the streams on the way back. We also gathered fire wood on our way back so that we'd have some fodder for our evening campfire just before midnight.

John making some delicious food. Or is this a picture of the "falafel soup"?

Getting warm. Glad I brought that scarf.

Drying out my foot after squelching in my cold, wet boot for a couple hours.

John over the cauldron.

Next morning, we all slept in and had a yummy breakfast before packing up and walking out.

Anne-Claire also had wet boots. She hiked out in flip-flops. Hobo.

Dodon (from Indonesia, not used to cold) wears several layers to keep warm.

Laura, super happy!

The gang: Dodon, Laura, John, Lisa, Anne-Claire

Redwoods.

Banana slug.

Up close.

Almost done with the 20 miles.

Dual jet streams.

Wildflowers.

Valley.

Shadows.


Almost there!

And, done! Phew! Super fun.